Empowering Leaders, Employees, and Lovers

Read my book - The Empowered Lover

"The Empowered Lover - The astounding science of how you can elevate your relationship even without depending on your partner to change" is a groundbreaking guide for those seeking to transform their marriage or long-term relationship, even if faced with a resistant partner. Drawing from the fields of social psychology, conflict management, and love and romance, this book offers innovative strategies to reignite passion, deepen connection, and foster personal growth within the confines of a stagnant relationship and for those who just enjoy continuously growing their love.

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ARNO KOCH is the author of The Empowered Lover and the EmpowerZen Planner and Life Coach in a book. His company, IMAGINE EVOLUTION, advises companies on building corporate culture, elevating communication within and between teams and departments and empowers leaders as well as employees. In his private practice Arno mentors Lovers to elevate their relationship even without depending on their partner to change. He lives in Malibu, California.

3-DAY BREAKUP PREVENTION CHALLENGE WITH ARNO KOCH

Starting Tuesday, February 14^th, 11 am PST

Discover the three shifts to elevate or even save your relationship

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3-DAY BREAKUP PREVENTION CHALLENGE

Starting Tuesday, February 14^th, 11 am PST

RELATIONSHIP MASTERY 1-day Live Online Event

Learn how to elevate or even save your relationship
- In Just 1 Day

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RELATIONSHIP MASTERY
1-day Live Online Event

November 20th 2022 9 am PST - 5 pm PST

Free Training Video

Discover the 3 shifts to elevate or even save your relationship

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FREE Training Video

Start Healing Your Relationship NOW!

Save or Fix your Marriage

Live Online Event Wednesday 11 am pst

Live Online Event

Save or Fix your Marriage/ Relationship

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Exclusive One-Day Retreat

If you are in a happy relationship and want to treat yourself and your partner to an exclusive growth experience or if you're struggling and want to rebuild what was, then this retreat is right for you.

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My Vision

Marriages that last. There may be marriages that started under wrong prerequisites but what about those that start with love and grow apart after sometimes decades? It's not your partner's fault and it's not your fault. You are not broken. You don’t need to be fixed. Yet, you are not getting the results in your relationship(s) that you need to be happy. How can you get the results you want? The answer to that question is as unique as you are, so that's where we'll start working together to find that one-of-a-kind solution for you.

Why do I focus on relationships? When I started out as a business coach, my first clients were coincidentally suffering in their marriages. By the end if the coaching program, they were happily in love again. When I noticed this, I wondered how it happened? The coaching was not about relationships, their partners were not involved in the coaching, I never even spoke a word with their partners. But I did ask them to practice the takeaways of each session with their spouses. It took just a few tweaks to my syllabus and the "Love-Based Relationship Method" was born and got profound results right off the bat.

Kind Words

					During a casual conversation with Arno about my recent relationship break-up, he gently asked me a few questions and within minutes I had a new perspective on how communication and perceptions impact  romantic relationships and ALL relationships. I knew on the spot that it would be beneficial to my personal growth and my relationships to work with Arno.  He is kind, non-judgmental, professional and gifted in helping others to resolve potentially destructive communication patterns.
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Karla B.
2/24/2021
					What can I say, I was out of sorts after a life changing event and was unable for the first time in years to pull myself back into a positive mind set. Arno and I met while doing work for him, I was smoking at the time and Arno said if I wanted to quit, at the time I was so ready, fast forward 3 months and I found myself needing a Life Coach Mentor.My experience with Arno was what I feel was a Life Changing Experience, I now have  the tools needed to work my mind into shape!Thank you so much Arno!
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Don B.
5/19/2022
					Definitely life changing!  Thank you 🙏
read moreread less
Nikita V.
12/13/2020
					Arno is a great coach, I cannot say enough good things about the guy.
read moreread less
Michael M.
7/30/2021
					Arno provided excellent service when my business partner and I had reached a point where communication between us became very difficult and counterproductive. While I was first hesitant to "hire" a relationship advisor we realized quickly that the underlying issues in any relationship, personal or commerical, are related to trust, communication and common goals. Thanks to Arno's experience he was able to guide us to better communication that changed the way we work together entirely. He has my deepest gratitude!
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Tim B.
11/02/2022
					Arno, thank you so much for your coaching and guidance. Your skills in NLP, books suggestions and all of your energy and time was vital for me reaching my goals for the year. I’ve ascended you the entrepreneur I am today because of your coaching. I appreciate your patience and willingness to push me beyond the heights I had for myself.



Your the best!
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Charles W.
3/10/2021
					Lieber Arno! Auch nach 2 Jahren bin ich noch gleichermaßen begeistert von Deinem Coaching. Es hat mein Leben in allen Bereichen radikal und positiv verändert. Mein Gesundheitszustand hat sich verbessert, meine Kommunikation und mein Umgang mit Menschen hat sich radikal verändert und ich kann, Dank Deiner Unterstützung, mein eigenes Business stetig ausbauen! Herzlichen Dank dafür!!!!
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Maren K.
4/13/2021
					I just did your heart meditation and I feel so blissfully centered, calm, energized and renewed. I will be doing that everyday for the next 40 days to reset my unconscious mind to a perpetual state of Love. It really is the Answer. Thank you Arno. I thank God for you. My husband and I look forward to learning from you. You have our highest respect. May God bless you for this exceptionally important work that you do.
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Freedom W.
3/04/2021
					During a casual conversation with Arno about my recent relationship break-up, he gently asked me a few questions and within minutes I had a new perspective on how communication and perceptions impact romantic relationships and ALL relationships. I knew on the spot that it would be beneficial to my personal growth and my relationships to work with Arno. He is kind, non-judgmental, professional and gifted in helping others to resolve potentially destructive communication patterns.
read moreread less
Karla B.
11/18/2021
					Arno has been such a blessing in my life! I have learned methods and implemented a consistant plan to improve my communication so others feel heard and understood.  I have also been able to change negative habits and behaviors that block effective and rational problem solving. Thank you for your kindness and patients every single session.
read moreread less
Melissa G.
3/13/2021
					This coach, Arno, will help you grow and get you to the next level.  If you’re looking for human growth within the most important relationship, which is the one with yourself as well as your relation to others, he’s the guy to help you succeed.  Very supportive and kind.  Professional and timely as well.
read moreread less
Dawn S.
2/16/2021
					Arno has been amazing to work with.

His aptitude and understanding has made it very easy to embrace the process. In just a little over 3 weeks I could vastly see improvement in my overall well-being, focus and confidence.

He is very attentive, empathetic and guides you to solves that ultimately aid in an appreciation for life and all of its facets.



I would definitely and have already advised friends of his services. 🙂
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Katie A.
5/15/2021

Do the right thing with compassion instead of the wrong thing out of compassion.

- Arno Koch

80% of people who work with a couples therapist
end up divorced.

The reason is not that therapists deliver underwhelming results. The reason is that people turn to help too late. You've heard that over 50% of marriages end in divorce? Let's look closer. Only 41% of first marriages end in divorce. But 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.

Those people repeat the same patterns over and over, blame their partner and hope for a magic fix by a future partner.

Those people find investing in a coach or therapist too expensive... and then spend on average $15.000 on their divorce - in legal fees alone.

Most people want their partner to change and don't see how their own change can make a difference. Think about this: Most of your and your partner's behaviors are automatic responses to the environment. When the environment changes, then we change.

As soon as you change in a loving and empowered way, your partner's environment changes (as you are part of it) and they must change as a consequence. It's inevitable. The only uncertainty is how they will change. But if your partner loves you and is a good person, then they will change in a positive way and the relationship will flourish.

Isn't it time to take action now?

80% of people who work with a couples therapist
end up divorced.

The reason is not that therapists deliver underwhelming results. The reason is that people turn to help too late. You've heard that over 50% of marriages end in divorce? Let's look closer.

Only 41% of first marriages end in divorce. But 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.

Those people repeat the same patterns over and over, blame their partner and hope for a magic fix by a future partner.

Those people find investing in a coach or therapist too expensive... and then spend on average $15.000 on their divorce - in legal fees alone.

Most people want their partner to change and don't see how their own change can make a difference. Think about this: Most of your and your partner's behaviors are automatic responses to the environment. When the environment changes, then we change.

As soon as you change in a loving and empowered way your partner's environment changes (as you are part of it) and they must change as a consequence. It's inevitable. The only uncertainty is how they will change. But if your partner loves you and is a good person then they will change in a positive way and the relationship will flourish.

Is it time to take action now?

Services I Offer

The beauty of group relationship coaching is that you immerse yourself in a safe and loving environment of people who all strive to grow in the spirit of being the driving force in their relationship and seeking empowerment to make a difference in their marriage and take response-ability.

Group relationship coaching is not group discussion - it's 1-to-1 coaching with others listening in, where my conversation with one person serves as a metaphor for another. My quality standards apply, conversations go until closure is achieved and you get results. Learn more

Relationship Coaching

As a relationship coach I have helped spouses and couples overcome:

Relationship hanging by a thread although they really love their partner.
Walking on eggshells in each others presence, feeling like they can’t be themselves at home.
Spouse brings up negative emotions from past relationships or triggers just like previous partners.
Feeling like room mates.
Broken trust (intimately, financially, ...)
Arguing more than showing each other love and affection and kids suffering in that environment.
One or both partners fell out of love.
No matter what you do, it doesn’t help or even makes things worse.

If one or more of these things are true in your relationship, let's talk and see if I can help you, too. Learn more

Corporate Training

Attrition is an expensive luxury no company can afford. How is your company culture? Low appreciation, low expectations of the future and feeling disconnected drive attrition. Sounds like one more task on the plate of the leadership team?

Although leadership can't relinquish responsibility for their team, empowering the individuals to take response-ability distributes the weight on many shoulders and relieves much of the pressure. A person who appreciates feels appreciated, a person who connects feels connected and a person who has an eye for opportunities sees a future. If you are curious (or you can already see) how relationship-driven empowerment of the employee serves not only them but the company as a whole and must reflect on the bottom line, then let's talk. Learn more

IN THE MEDIA

Casey Moninghoff and I had a great conversation about relationships. We talked about the power of apologies, triggers, balancing empathy and authenticity, boundaries, justifiable actions vs actions that get positive results and offering true choices.

Listen (Apple)

Listen (Spotify)

Listen (Soundcloud)

It was fun talking with Melody Avecilla on her podcast about elevating relationships, learning to be happy and making your partner happy, responsibility for you and your partners feelings, effective communication tips, the 5 love languages (from a very unique perspective), when is it time to end a relationship and so much more...

Listen (Apple)

Listen (Spotify)

Watch (Youtube)

I am excited for the release of episode 31 of Anna Grabow's "The Premise Of Purpose" Podcast.

Anna asked me about my story, how I came to become a relationship coach and we touched on a lot of empowering relationship topics that can help you elevate your relationship.

The episode is going live on Friday 11/11!

Listen (Apple)

Kim O'Neills "Every Day is a New Day" Podcasts was a fun opportunity to talk about Relationship Coaching for executives.

Kim asked great questions and put me on the spot right from the start for an insightful conversation about what love means, how you create change in your relationship, the deeper meaning of leadership and the beauty and possible toxicity of the 5 love languages.

Watch here

Listen (Apple)

Listen (Spotify)

Sharon Costanzo and I talked about a very specific topic on her Podcast. She asked me great questions about how responsible we are for our partner's feelings.

Is happy wife - happy life good advice? - It can be, it can also be very toxic. Find out on this episode of the "Keep Talking Revolution" podcast.

Listen (web)

Listen (Apple)

Listen (Spotify)

The wonderful Chava Floryn asked me fantastic questions about elevating relationships and overcoming conflict. We talked about expressions of frustration, how hurt people hurt people, repairing conflict, (not) taking things personal, getting permission before helping, offering true choices and much more...

Watch here

Listen (Spotify)

Listen (Apple)

I loved talking about Intentional Relationship-Based Leadership with Christopher Salem on TALRadio

There are no business problems and no relationship problems. There are only personal problems that reveal themselves in our business and relationship life. A leader must be a great communicator and build intentional relationships.

Watch here

Listen (Apple)

Listen (Spotify)

Listen to more podcasts with Arno.

Check out this Interview with me in the GoSolo interview series about my entrepreneurial journey.

What His Clients Say

					During a casual conversation with Arno about my recent relationship break-up, he gently asked me a few questions and within minutes I had a new perspective on how communication and perceptions impact  romantic relationships and ALL relationships. I knew on the spot that it would be beneficial to my personal growth and my relationships to work with Arno.  He is kind, non-judgmental, professional and gifted in helping others to resolve potentially destructive communication patterns.
read moreread less
Karla B.
2/24/2021
					Arno provided excellent service when my business partner and I had reached a point where communication between us became very difficult and counterproductive. While I was first hesitant to "hire" a relationship advisor we realized quickly that the underlying issues in any relationship, personal or commerical, are related to trust, communication and common goals. Thanks to Arno's experience he was able to guide us to better communication that changed the way we work together entirely. He has my deepest gratitude!
read moreread less
Tim B.
11/02/2022
					Arno has been such a blessing in my life! I have learned methods and implemented a consistant plan to improve my communication so others feel heard and understood.  I have also been able to change negative habits and behaviors that block effective and rational problem solving. Thank you for your kindness and patients every single session.
read moreread less
Melissa G.
3/13/2021
					Definitely life changing!  Thank you 🙏
read moreread less
Nikita V.
12/13/2020
					Arno has been amazing to work with.

His aptitude and understanding has made it very easy to embrace the process. In just a little over 3 weeks I could vastly see improvement in my overall well-being, focus and confidence.

He is very attentive, empathetic and guides you to solves that ultimately aid in an appreciation for life and all of its facets.



I would definitely and have already advised friends of his services. 🙂
read moreread less
Katie A.
5/15/2021
					Lieber Arno! Auch nach 2 Jahren bin ich noch gleichermaßen begeistert von Deinem Coaching. Es hat mein Leben in allen Bereichen radikal und positiv verändert. Mein Gesundheitszustand hat sich verbessert, meine Kommunikation und mein Umgang mit Menschen hat sich radikal verändert und ich kann, Dank Deiner Unterstützung, mein eigenes Business stetig ausbauen! Herzlichen Dank dafür!!!!
read moreread less
Maren K.
4/13/2021
					Arno, thank you so much for your coaching and guidance. Your skills in NLP, books suggestions and all of your energy and time was vital for me reaching my goals for the year. I’ve ascended you the entrepreneur I am today because of your coaching. I appreciate your patience and willingness to push me beyond the heights I had for myself.



Your the best!
read moreread less
Charles W.
3/10/2021
					I just did your heart meditation and I feel so blissfully centered, calm, energized and renewed. I will be doing that everyday for the next 40 days to reset my unconscious mind to a perpetual state of Love. It really is the Answer. Thank you Arno. I thank God for you. My husband and I look forward to learning from you. You have our highest respect. May God bless you for this exceptionally important work that you do.
read moreread less
Freedom W.
3/04/2021
					What can I say, I was out of sorts after a life changing event and was unable for the first time in years to pull myself back into a positive mind set. Arno and I met while doing work for him, I was smoking at the time and Arno said if I wanted to quit, at the time I was so ready, fast forward 3 months and I found myself needing a Life Coach Mentor.My experience with Arno was what I feel was a Life Changing Experience, I now have  the tools needed to work my mind into shape!Thank you so much Arno!
read moreread less
Don B.
5/19/2022
					Arno is a great coach, I cannot say enough good things about the guy.
read moreread less
Michael M.
7/30/2021
					During a casual conversation with Arno about my recent relationship break-up, he gently asked me a few questions and within minutes I had a new perspective on how communication and perceptions impact romantic relationships and ALL relationships. I knew on the spot that it would be beneficial to my personal growth and my relationships to work with Arno. He is kind, non-judgmental, professional and gifted in helping others to resolve potentially destructive communication patterns.
read moreread less
Karla B.
11/18/2021
					This coach, Arno, will help you grow and get you to the next level.  If you’re looking for human growth within the most important relationship, which is the one with yourself as well as your relation to others, he’s the guy to help you succeed.  Very supportive and kind.  Professional and timely as well.
read moreread less
Dawn S.
2/16/2021

What His Clients Say

"I have found Arno's work and coaching to be extremely valuable in several areas of my life. From the very beginning of working together, the breakthrough session alone was like a miracle! It allowed me to eliminate the barriers of pain and fear from past events that were negatively affecting my daily activities and how I showed up in the world. My focus has shifted from the past to a more productive present and meaningful future. I have learned new communication skills which are enabling me to become a better person in both personal and business relationships. I would highly recommend his work to anyone looking to improve and elevate their overall life in general."

Dan S.
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EMPOWERZEN

This is not just a planner.
This is a personal development tool. (Designed by Arno Koch).

What it's all about

✔️ ACHIEVE SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS

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✔️ YOUR PLANNER & JOURNAL

✔️ LIFE COACH IN A BOOK

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"There are no business problems and no relationship problems. There are only personal problems that reveal themselves in your business or relationship."

- Arno Koch

CONTACT

If you are looking for support, then call or text Arno today at (805)405-9880 or send an email to info(at)arnokoch.com.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Your partner my see a problem in you but by virtue of being in a relationship together, both of you must have your share in it. Your coach or therapist will not pick a side but facilitate the positive influence each of you can have.

Chances are, your partner sees a problem and knows consciously or unconsciously that s/he needs help but s/he needs your support. In case you are not open to therapy or coaching, s/he may fear that them going to therapy alone will negatively change how you see them or that you may see their therapy as an acknowledgement that they are the problem. You're in this together. Give them the support they need

You're not the same person you were a few years ago, you will be a different person in a few years. Change is inevitable, conscious change is a choice you can make.

You may feel like your partner wants to change you. By virtue of one of you being unhappy a change needs to happen in your relationship. Your partner may be certain that it's you who needs to change but the truth is, your coach or therapist will facilitate the right change in your relationship.

In coaching or therapy you will learn things about yourself and relationships that will influence your relationship positively.

BENEFITS DISCLAIMER: When addressing the potential effects and benefits within any of our websites, videos, newsletters, programs or other content from imagine-evolution.com, we’ve taken every effort to ensure that we accurately represent our programs and their ability to impact your life. However, Arno Koch does not guarantee that you will experience results in any given timeframe or that your physical, emotional, mental or spiritual well being will be immediately or drastically improved. Arno Koch does not claim to diagnose or treat any specific conditions. It is our belief that all of our ideas, tools, strategies or recommendations have been shown to have an effect for the majority of people who have successfully engaged with our content; however, nothing on our site is a guarantee to you of any particular impact or effect. Arno Koch's approach is intended for educational purposes only. Information provided by this website or this company is not a substitute for individual medical advice.

Empowering Leaders, Employees, and Lovers

3-DAY BREAKUP PREVENTION CHALLENGE WITH ARNO KOCH

3-DAY BREAKUP PREVENTION CHALLENGE

Starting Tuesday, February 14th, 11 am PST

RELATIONSHIP MASTERY 1-day Live Online Event

RELATIONSHIP MASTERY1-day Live Online Event

November 20th 2022 9 am PST - 5 pm PST

Free Training Video

FREE Training Video

Start Healing Your Relationship NOW!

Save or Fix your Marriage

Live Online Event Wednesday 11 am pst

Live Online Event

Exclusive One-Day Retreat

My Vision

Kind Words

Do the right thing with compassion instead of the wrong thing out of compassion.

- Arno Koch

Services I Offer

Relationship Coaching

Corporate Training

What His Clients Say

What His Clients Say

EMPOWERZEN

This is not just a planner. This is a personal development tool. (Designed by Arno Koch).

What it's all about

CONTACT

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Starting Tuesday, February 14^th, 11 am PST

RELATIONSHIP MASTERY
1-day Live Online Event

This is not just a planner.
This is a personal development tool. (Designed by Arno Koch).