Empowering Leaders, Employees, and Lovers


Relationship Coaching
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Read my book - The Empowered Lover


"The Empowered Lover - The astounding science of how you can elevate your relationship even without depending on your partner to change" is a groundbreaking guide for those seeking to transform their marriage or long-term relationship, even if faced with a resistant partner. Drawing from the fields of social psychology, conflict management, and love and romance, this book offers innovative strategies to reignite passion, deepen connection, and foster personal growth within the confines of a stagnant relationship and for those who just enjoy continuously growing their love.

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ARNO KOCH is the author of The Empowered Lover and the EmpowerZen Planner and Life Coach in a book. His company, IMAGINE EVOLUTION, advises companies on building corporate culture, elevating communication within and between teams and departments and empowers leaders as well as employees. In his private practice Arno mentors Lovers to elevate their relationship even without depending on their partner to change. He lives in Malibu, California.


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My Vision


Marriages that last. There may be marriages that started under wrong prerequisites but what about those that start with love and grow apart after sometimes decades? It's not your partner's fault and it's not your fault. You are not broken. You don’t need to be fixed. Yet, you are not getting the results in your relationship(s) that you need to be happy. How can you get the results you want? The answer to that question is as unique as you are, so that's where we'll start working together to find that one-of-a-kind solution for you.

Why do I focus on relationships? When I started out as a business coach, my first clients were coincidentally suffering in their marriages. By the end if the coaching program, they were happily in love again. When I noticed this, I wondered how it happened? The coaching was not about relationships, their partners were not involved in the coaching, I never even spoke a word with their partners. But I did ask them to practice the takeaways of each session with their spouses. It took just a few tweaks to my syllabus and the "Love-Based Relationship Method" was born and got profound results right off the bat.

Kind Words

Do the right thing with compassion instead of the wrong thing out of compassion.

- Arno Koch

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80% of people who work with a couples therapist
end up divorced.

The reason is not that therapists deliver underwhelming results. The reason is that people turn to help too late. You've heard that over 50% of marriages end in divorce? Let's look closer. Only 41% of first marriages end in divorce. But 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.

Those people repeat the same patterns over and over, blame their partner and hope for a magic fix by a future partner.

Those people find investing in a coach or therapist too expensive... and then spend on average $15.000 on their divorce - in legal fees alone.

Most people want their partner to change and don't see how their own change can make a difference. Think about this: Most of your and your partner's behaviors are automatic responses to the environment. When the environment changes, then we change.

As soon as you change in a loving and empowered way, your partner's environment changes (as you are part of it) and they must change as a consequence. It's inevitable. The only uncertainty is how they will change. But if your partner loves you and is a good person, then they will change in a positive way and the relationship will flourish.

Isn't it time to take action now?

80% of people who work with a couples therapist
end up divorced.

The reason is not that therapists deliver underwhelming results. The reason is that people turn to help too late. You've heard that over 50% of marriages end in divorce? Let's look closer.

Only 41% of first marriages end in divorce. But 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.

Those people repeat the same patterns over and over, blame their partner and hope for a magic fix by a future partner.

Those people find investing in a coach or therapist too expensive... and then spend on average $15.000 on their divorce - in legal fees alone.

Most people want their partner to change and don't see how their own change can make a difference. Think about this: Most of your and your partner's behaviors are automatic responses to the environment. When the environment changes, then we change.

As soon as you change in a loving and empowered way your partner's environment changes (as you are part of it) and they must change as a consequence. It's inevitable. The only uncertainty is how they will change. But if your partner loves you and is a good person then they will change in a positive way and the relationship will flourish.

Is it time to take action now?

Services I Offer



The beauty of group relationship coaching is that you immerse yourself in a safe and loving environment of people who all strive to grow in the spirit of being the driving force in their relationship and seeking empowerment to make a difference in their marriage and take response-ability.

Group relationship coaching is not group discussion - it's 1-to-1 coaching with others listening in, where my conversation with one person serves as a metaphor for another. My quality standards apply, conversations go until closure is achieved and you get results. Learn more


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As a relationship coach I have helped spouses and couples overcome:

  • Relationship hanging by a thread although they really love their partner.
  • Walking on eggshells in each others presence, feeling like they can’t be themselves at home.
  • Spouse brings up negative emotions from past relationships or triggers just like previous partners.
  • Feeling like room mates.
  • Broken trust (intimately, financially, ...)
  • Arguing more than showing each other love and affection and kids suffering in that environment.
  • One or both partners fell out of love.
  • No matter what you do, it doesn’t help or even makes things worse.

If one or more of these things are true in your relationship, let's talk and see if I can help you, too. Learn more


Attrition is an expensive luxury no company can afford. How is your company culture? Low appreciation, low expectations of the future and feeling disconnected drive attrition. Sounds like one more task on the plate of the leadership team?

Although leadership can't relinquish responsibility for their team, empowering the individuals to take response-ability distributes the weight on many shoulders and relieves much of the pressure. A person who appreciates feels appreciated, a person who connects feels connected and a person who has an eye for opportunities sees a future. If you are curious (or you can already see) how relationship-driven empowerment of the employee serves not only them but the company as a whole and must reflect on the bottom line, then let's talk. Learn more


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IN THE MEDIA

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Casey Moninghoff and I had a great conversation about relationships. We talked about the power of apologies, triggers, balancing empathy and authenticity, boundaries, justifiable actions vs actions that get positive results and offering true choices.
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It was fun talking with Melody Avecilla on her podcast about elevating relationships, learning to be happy and making your partner happy, responsibility for you and your partners feelings, effective communication tips, the 5 love languages (from a very unique perspective), when is it time to end a relationship and so much more...

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I am excited for the release of episode 31 of Anna Grabow's "The Premise Of Purpose" Podcast.

Anna asked me about my story, how I came to become a relationship coach and we touched on a lot of empowering relationship topics that can help you elevate your relationship.

The episode is going live on Friday 11/11!

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Kim O'Neills "Every Day is a New Day" Podcasts was a fun opportunity to talk about Relationship Coaching for executives.

Kim asked great questions and put me on the spot right from the start for an insightful conversation about what love means, how you create change in your relationship, the deeper meaning of leadership and the beauty and possible toxicity of the 5 love languages.

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Sharon Costanzo and I talked about a very specific topic on her Podcast. She asked me great questions about how responsible we are for our partner's feelings.

Is happy wife - happy life good advice? - It can be, it can also be very toxic. Find out on this episode of the "Keep Talking Revolution" podcast.

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The wonderful Chava Floryn asked me fantastic questions about elevating relationships and overcoming conflict. We talked about expressions of frustration, how hurt people hurt people, repairing conflict, (not) taking things personal, getting permission before helping, offering true choices and much more...

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I loved talking about Intentional Relationship-Based Leadership with Christopher Salem on TALRadio

There are no business problems and no relationship problems. There are only personal problems that reveal themselves in our business and relationship life. A leader must be a great communicator and build intentional relationships.

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    Listen to more podcasts with Arno.


    Check out this Interview with me in the GoSolo interview series about my entrepreneurial journey.

    What His Clients Say


    What His Clients Say


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    "I have found Arno's work and coaching to be extremely valuable in several areas of my life. From the very beginning of working together, the breakthrough session alone was like a miracle! It allowed me to eliminate the barriers of pain and fear from past events that were negatively affecting my daily activities and how I showed up in the world. My focus has shifted from the past to a more productive present and meaningful future. I have learned new communication skills which are enabling me to become a better person in both personal and business relationships. I would highly recommend his work to anyone looking to improve and elevate their overall life in general."


    Dan S.
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    EMPOWERZEN

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    This is not just a planner.
    This is a personal development tool. (Designed by Arno Koch).

    What it's all about

    ✔️ ACHIEVE SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS

    ✔️ ELIMINATE OVERWHELM & GAIN FOCUS

    ✔️ YOUR PLANNER & JOURNAL

    ✔️ LIFE COACH IN A BOOK

    ✔️ 1 FULL YEAR UNDATED, 12 MONTHLY REVIEWS

    ✔️ INSPIRING CREATIVITY


    "There are no business problems and no relationship problems. There are only personal problems that reveal themselves in your business or relationship."

    - Arno Koch

    CONTACT

    If you are looking for support, then call or text Arno today at (805)405-9880 or send an email to info(at)arnokoch.com.


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    BENEFITS DISCLAIMER: When addressing the potential effects and benefits within any of our websites, videos, newsletters, programs or other content from imagine-evolution.com, we’ve taken every effort to ensure that we accurately represent our programs and their ability to impact your life. However, Arno Koch does not guarantee that you will experience results in any given timeframe or that your physical, emotional, mental or spiritual well being will be immediately or drastically improved. Arno Koch does not claim to diagnose or treat any specific conditions. It is our belief that all of our ideas, tools, strategies or recommendations have been shown to have an effect for the majority of people who have successfully engaged with our content; however, nothing on our site is a guarantee to you of any particular impact or effect. Arno Koch's approach is intended for educational purposes only. Information provided by this website or this company is not a substitute for individual medical advice.