I fell out of love with someone I though was my soulmate.. What can I do now? This seems to be a common problem arising in marriages and long term relationships – but there is a solution. An old couple was once asked what the secret of their long marriage was and they responded: “We never fell out of love …
Is the power of reciprocity working for you or against you?
Reciprocity is one of the invisible forces that relationships are built on. Whenever you do something nice for another human, that person feels the need to do something nice for you – to reciprocate. The simplest thing to do for someone is to smile. Chances are, you’ll get a smile back. Did you know that the power of reciprocity is …
Relationship Secret: Offer TRUE choices
What is a true choice and what makes it special to offer true choices? A true choice is one in which all possible options are appreciated and no decision made leads to negative consequences, repercussions or rebuttals. If you express sadness, frustration, or disappointment as a result of your partner making a “wrong” decision by withdrawing, distancing yourself, or refraining …
How Can You Elevate Or Even Save Your Relationship Without Involving Your Partner?
How can you save or elevate your relationship without doing it “together” with your partner? There are a few reasons why working on your relationship by yourself is actually the only way to elevate your relationship… 1. Whenever you do it together with your partner, yes, you see that you need to change but you’re still side-eyeing them to notice …
Be the Candle, or the Mirror that reflects it
For a long time one of my greatest internal struggles was: “How can I talk in public or write about things that were not invented by me?!” Do you feel me? If you are asking yourself the same question or if you are asking yourself how I dare to, read on. One of the greatest inventors that I ever met, …